12.21.2010

just friends.

Some people skip over the blog posts that have all writing. I do it too. But sorry non-literate people who see a chunk of writing and think 'overload back away' this one is one of those.


Do you know what I have slowly began to really realize? What is the point of guy friends? boy friends. I mean friends that are boys. There is no point to them unless you get married to one. But once that happens they all dissolve into nothing-ness. Or once they get married you can say bye-bye to that friendship. I have some amazing boys in my life that will sadly be nothing more but my precious good friends and I am so sad to just see them go. But that's the name of the game. I know once I get married to my special someone I should be able to care less about every other boy in my life.(which will be hard because i love my boy..friends very much!) I think it's just a weird thing. I have a thought at least once a week that is referring all back to the big master thought "what is the point of guy friends?" A kid I used to date and became close friends with after was getting married and my mom was wondering where they were registered so she could buy them a gift. My first reaction would be to just text him right up. WRONG. There is one boy in my life where his wife will just sadly HAVE to put up with me being around.. .and that is my best friend Brandon Robert King, who gets embarassed when people find out that he is a heavy reader of my blog. but i love him for it. Anyway I don't know where all those words came from but I just find it frustrating. and I will continue to find it frustrating and have the idea of guy friends blow my mind. but in the meantime, I will just keep my guy friends close and blast music from TANGLED (which is currently the best movie i have seen- - -twice)


1 comment:

  1. I totally know what you mean. This is really frustrating to me sometimes.

    I try to make an effort to be friends my guyfriends' girlfriends/potential wives starting from the very beginning. If/when they get married, I don't usually have to totally let go if I've become friends with the girl, too. I have a few guyfriends who are married who I'm still able to talk to because I'm friends with both them and their spouses. And sometimes I think it's just really nice to be friends with married people. Yeah.

    But I still know what you mean. It pretty much sucks. Let's just hope we get married before ALL of our guyfriends do!

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